You are responsible for your impact on others, they are responsible for how they deal with it. So ask yourself before you say something ask yourself these 5 questions.
Is this kind?
Is this mindful?
Is this of service?
Will this help or have a good effect on the other person?
Is this more about me than them?
So many times we speak or tell others without thought to our impact on them emotionally. We are not responsible for them emotionally but we are responsible for how we affect others. So today, lets take a moment before we say something and make sure it is kind.