Kindness, understanding, solutions and a safe place to land goes a long way when there is a problem. I love being that to others. Instead of being in judgement, be in divine love.
Ease their burden by kindness and understanding, not with anger. For anyone out there struggling, find that person that believes in you and gives you a safe place to land. That indeed is being part of the solution.
For this too will pass. Believe in yourself, stay positive, do the hard work and find the right kind of support.
Personally, I know that there can be times where you face difficulty, uncertainty and you are trying to decide what to do next. This is the time that you need a solution and support.
Sometimes others try to help and tell you what is best. They mean well, but it is what they feel is best for you, not necessarily what you know is best for you.
Even in the darkness, if you look, the light and answers are inside of you. Let go of fear, go into quiet and listen to your answers.
This is the time to surround yourself with those that will hold you with divine love and no judgement while you take your next steps.
If that is not the support you are getting, then they are part of the problem and not the solution.